Salam alaik, guys. Annyeonghaseyo 안녕하세요 Harini akak (akak sangat) nak bagitahu engkorang-engkorang cara untuk always be happy.
Things always happened to be like this. Korang ada problem and need solutions. Then, korang pun start lah minta pendapat orang sekeliling, especially from your friends. Ingin aku tekankan bahawa peranan korang bertanya pendapat orang ni just untuk membantu korang buat keputusan, bukan menentukan keputusan korang (keputusan dia = keputusan kau). Just because dia kata 'A', kau pun dengan tanpa ragunya pilih 'A'. Sebab? Sebab dia kata dia kenal kau. Kenal sangat perangai kau. Bukan nak kata kawan-kawan sekeliling kita ni tak betul, takleh pakai ke apa. It's not like that. It's just to make sure that you are happy with your decision. It's your life. Not theirs. Just because they think they know you, doesn't mean that they really did. Kita pun susah nak faham diri sendiri, apatah lagi orang lain. Right?
When our hearts say yes but we want to say no, and when our hearts say no but we want to answer yes – We hesitate like this, because we don’t even know our own hearts. At times like this, whatever slips out of your mouth when you’re not thinking, is what you truly think. - She Was Pretty
But this means that you won't be sad all the times too, right? So the fact that sadness also won't last forever ni akan buat korang motivated and looking forward to upcoming happiness masa korang tengah sedih. Jadi masa sedih, jangan layankan sangat sedih tu lama-lama. Cheer up! Himnae sae yo *cakap dengan cermin. Eh*
You don't need to follow what's everyone else is doing just because they did. Do what you want. Do things that can make you happy, babe.
"When someone is doing what they really like, that’s when they look the most beautiful. I want to look truly beautiful as I do what I like - not to someone else, but to myself." - Hwang Jeungum, She Was Pretty.
Maybe you hesitated to pursue your dream and passion just because it looks nothing to others but hey, everyone has that one or two things like that. Everyone is the same. Once again, do things that can make you happy.
"It’s nothing to others, but it means something to you. We all have one or two of those things." - Park Seo Joon, She Was Pretty.
It's so kind of you to make people around you happy, but don't forget to make sure that you are happy too. Most of all, happiness depends on ourselves. If we decide to be happy, we will. Think positive, and positive thing will happen. I'm inspired to write this post because of a drama called She Was Pretty. Baru je habis tengok. Best! Park Seo Joon handsomeeee^^ *itu yang pentingnya haha*